It turns out that my gf/wife with whom I've been in a long term relationship, has never mentioned me or turning bi to any of her lesbian ex-es. I guess that makes her the only closeted straight female in the world!!!!
... and it makes me feel totally irrelevant
You are not irrelevant, and you know that just like none of your bf's were irrelevant even though you never mentioned them to any of your family.
ReplyDeleteYou have to remember that for me, being in the closet is a fact of life. We live where we live and we both enjoy you know, having jobs and families.
Remember R., we live in a country where being openly gay will get you beat up in the street than arrested for disturbing the piece! Here, it really doesn't get better.
Why the fuck should it matter to you, if people label bi? You often through this question at other people, why don't you reverse it? Do people really need to know this info, or care?
ReplyDeleteI think you might have more problems that your girlfriend is still close with her exes, and she hasn't introduced you to them. She might not be all that into you.